These days we are seeing a lot of families dispersed by divorce  .. There are plenty of grounds for divorce in this life and has negative affects, & sometimes positive,

 but how we can avoid it & live a happy marriage life .. All this and more You'll find here ...

what is Divorce ?

A divorce is a legal action between married people to terminate their marriage relationship.
It can be referred to as dissolution of marriage and is basically,
the legal action that ends the marriage before the death of either spouse.

Types of divorce

No-fault divorce

At-fault divorce

Summary divorce

Uncontested divorce

Collaborative divorce

Electronic divorce

Mediated divorce

Divorce cuases

• Lack of commitmentto the marriage
• Lack of communication between spouses

• Infidelity

• Abandonment

• Alcohol Addiction

• Substance Abuse

• Physical Abuse

• Emotional Abuse

• Inability to manage or resolve conflict

• Personality Differences or ‘irreconcilable differences’

• Differences in personal and career goals


• Financial problems

• Different expectations about household tasks


• Different expectations about having or rearing children


• Interference from parents orin-laws


• Lack of maturity

• Intellectual Incompatibility

• Abuse Insistence of sticking to traditional roles and not allowing room for personal growth


• Falling out of love

• Religious conversion or religious beliefs


• Cultural and lifestyle differences

• Inability to deal with each other’s petty idiosyncrasies


• Mental Instability or Mental Illness


• Criminal behavior and incarceration for crime

Reasons and Negative Effects of Divorce

Divorce Effects

Children

- They are increasingly the victims of abuse. 

- They exhibit more health, behavioral, and emotional problems. 

- They are involved more frequently in drug abuse, and have higher rates of suicide.

- They are more poorly in reading, spelling, and math.

  - They are more likely to repeat a grade and to have higher drop-out rates
and lower rates of college graduation.

 Families

With children that were not poor before the
divorce see their income drop as much as 50 percent. Almost 50 percent of the
parents with children that are going through a divorce move into poverty after
the divorce . 

Tips for a happy married life

 UnderStand your partner



Understanding is the basement of the married life. Until, you understand your
partner completely you would not be able to stay happily with your partner.
Understanding the likes and dislikes of the partner is prime responsibility in
the marriage. So, for this you need to talk freely with your partner. But,
don’t try to understand everything in a day. It would certainly take you some
time frame to understand your partner completely.

DON'T COMPARE

There will always be a couple better  than you two , they are more attractive,  wealthier, nicer, hipper, healthier, smarter,
more successful, and more glamourous than you two. But if you are constantly
comparing yourself to other couples, you will miss out on enjoying how happy
you are just being yourselves..

 BE A TEAM

While you are both successful, independent people, don't forget
to cheer each other on, support each other's dreams, and encourage each other
to live your best lives.

BE FABULOUS

Be comfortable being unconventional, glamourous & unique.

  CARE ABOUT HIM\HER

       

Take care of your partner. This would help your partner to
understand that how much you care about him/her. Don’t just care to show it,
but do it with your heart and your partner would also do the same for you.

 

 

BE ROMANTIC AND SHOW YOUR LOVE

-        Love is what your partner needs the most. Never forget to show
love to your partner & let him\ her feel it . It is the only feeling in the
world that has the power to resolve all the problems in the relationship. Love
helps your relationship to strengthen& It brings the partners closer &
closer from each other.